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Not-So-Speedy Dressage

From Endurance to Dressage

Probably a Little TMI

1/20/2014

 
PictureYeah. Something like this.
I started thinking about bling the other day. Some people seem to just attract bling and are able to wear it ever so casually. It looks natural on them even when their hair is a mess and their clothes are dirty, maybe especially so when they look a hot mess.

I know why I don't wear a lot of bling. It's for the same reason that I don't tend to favor "blingy" tack for my horses. You're going to wonder at the sense of my rationale, but here it is: I am a very confident person.

And before I offend anyone, that is NOT to say that it is unconfident people who wear bling. It's just why I don't need to/want to. Great. Now everyone is offended! Let me explain.

I've always been very independent. I've never really followed fads, and in fact, I sometimes find myself ahead of trends. I am okay in my own skin and don't need anyone else's approval to make me feel better about myself; I do that on my own. And while I may be very hard on myself, I know what I know, and I rarely second guess myself.

As an aside, I think being responsible for one's own happiness is the thing that makes marriages work. We each need to be responsible for our own self-worth and happiness; no one can do that for you. My husband and I have been together for more than 23 years, married for 19½. We're very happy together, but we're also happy doing our own things. And I am sure he's a bit relieved that I don't need much bling; it's cheaper for him!

All of that is to say that I don't need to draw attention to myself to feel "recognized." When I am good at something, I am happy enough if I know it, and I don't feel as though I need everyone else to know it, too. My car is the color of asphalt with no bumper stickers. I simply don't need to be noticed. And frankly, being noticed is sometimes embarrassing. So I don't wear much bling.

When it comes to my horses, bling makes me a bit uncomfortable because for me it says, Look at us; we're fabulous, (or at least we think are). I am hesitant to use bling on my boys because I don't want people to think that I think we are so great that we need to be in the spotlight. The funny thing is that when I see other riders using bling on their horses, I simply admire how pretty it looks, but it doesn't say anything to me, and it certainly doesn't shout, WOW, YOU MUST BE AWESOME! It's just pretty.

PictureI need some more "pretty!"
So with that realization, I've decided that I am allowed to indulge my love of pretty things. Buying a browband with some sparkle doesn't have to mean anything. It's just pretty. So not only is Speedy getting a new browband, I've also ordered two monogrammed dressage pads. They're black and white, of course, but they are at least monogrammed which moves them from nondescript to Hey! I'm a bit prettier than plain.

Judy
1/19/2014 11:02:14 pm

Oh how I love my OCD Step Daughter! Thanks for starting my day with a laugh! xoxo

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:15:37 am

Thank you, I'll be here all week. :0)

Lauren link
1/19/2014 11:28:39 pm

I like bling, but my discipline doesn't let me get crazy with it. Sometimes I'm very glad for that because it keeps me in check!

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:17:28 am

I wish I had that problem. Dressage riders like bling, but I am just more "workmanlike." I'm big on function and less interested in form. :0)

Tara link
1/20/2014 12:17:26 am

Awww, good for you! Monogramed is classic.... I think in my younger years, I might have gone for all the crystals I can fit into the space avail...but, now, simplicity! my one snaffle bridle has a simple silver clincher...my western I use is simple black beta, no embellishments...but I do have two fancier westerns, and a fancier western breastcollar...
Tara

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:20:10 am

I'm with you - keep it simple. It's easier to clean and less likely to get broken. Does that strategy come with age and experience? 'Cause at 43, that's what I think about. :0)

Tara
1/21/2014 04:46:34 am

I think so, lol...I think for me, it is the time distance from the little girl I used to be...lol....but watch out if I ride in a parade...because the crazy little girl gets to come out, and she is crazy!!! :)
Tara

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 05:19:54 am

HAHA! Very funny!

Amanda link
1/20/2014 01:10:43 am

Totally agree that you can't rely on your spouse or anyone else to make you happy. I feel indifferent to bling. I like my colors for cross country but I just don't have any huge ambition to add bling to our outfits but I wouldn't necessarily be opposed either.

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:23:01 am

Colors are easy - I did that in endurance. Bling on tack can be expensive which is another reason I am not a big fan. I am just so dang PRACTICAL that it seems wasteful to have double and triple of everything just to protect the bling. I already have double and triple of everything because I have two horses and I've switched disciplines. Aack! I don't need anything else in my tack room, trailer, garage. :0)

Sandra
1/20/2014 05:34:22 am

I couldn't agree with you more! I love to look nice. I like to "match." I am not so much into "bling" but think it looks nice on other horses. I love this post and am really thinking about getting a nice browband for Woobie!

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:23:42 am

Let me know what you decide on as I might have to get something for Sydney, too!

Hannah link
1/20/2014 10:23:12 pm

Ha! I love this post. I am not into bling at alllllllll -- I am the world's laziest tack cleaner and am absolutely not going to take proper care of shinies, but I'm vain enough to not want them there looking gross -- but I have a similar love/hate/self-judging/others-admiring relationship with brightly colored tack and gear. Am especially torn as I start to consider hoof boots, because I would Really Like to be able to find anything that come off a foot during our learning curve...

Bakersfield Dressage link
1/21/2014 12:27:21 am

EXACTLY!!!!

My last mare went barefoot in the back so I had to use boots on her. I rode with Easyboots for MANY years, but got interested in the "easier" Renegades. I did end up buying a pair, and I bought the brightest, orangest ones they offered at the time. It wasn't for people to notice US, but for me to find the things when and if they came off! :0)

Tori link
1/22/2014 12:21:41 am

It's funny you mention being ahead of trends. I have had a blinged browband for almost 12 years now! Now its a huge fad, but hey - I love the bling. Always have - always will, within reason ;)

Do what make you feel your best!


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