Basically, my life is about horses, and not just my own. I struggle to live a balanced life that includes interacting with non-horsey people doing non-horsey things. In general, I am not very successful at a non-horsey life. I am not always sure why my husband hasn't traded me in for a more interesting model.
So when Wyvern Oaks wrote about her life outside of horses, it got me wondering whether I could name five things that I enjoy that have nothing to do with horses, dressage, or farm life. Even last week, my husband and I watched the National Finals Rodeo on TV; it was on all week. I can't even count that as a non-horsey thing because IT'S HORSES. In my defense, we both dug watching the bareback bronc riders get their asses kicked.
If I didn't have horses, I know there are a lot of things that I would be doing - more pedicures, trips to the movies, hair appointments, girl's night out, more frequent weekend getaways with my husband, and on and on. I do have horses though. And truthfully, it was really hard to find five things that I truly enjoy that aren't equine related.
Here they are ...
I read at least 25 books a year, usually more. It seems that most horsey girls are readers, or at least used to be. As a kid, I read every horse book written including the obligatory favorites by Walter Farley and everything by Marguerite Henry. I read King of the Wind at least a dozen times. Today I read books from every genre, but I most enjoy contemporary literature, historical fiction, and fantasy.
I actually started a food blog last year, but it was just too much work to keep up. It's still around, and I'd like to revive it, but ... riding. While I enjoy cooking, it's not something I look forward to each evening, but I find that once I am in the midst of chopping and sautéing, I get a sense of satisfaction out of the process.
My "specialty" seems to be ethnic foods with a twist, and I try to use as many fresh ingredients as possible. I do a lot of Italian, Greek, and South of the Border type dishes. Living in central California, the nation's garden, means I have access to super fresh, high quality produce and meat products.
If you look at my Facebook check-ins, you'll see lots of Friday and Saturday evenings out to dinner with my husband. The thing I like about going out for dinner is that it is in the company of adults. Tall people. People who aren't wiping their noses on their sleeves and coughing their yuckiness into the very air I breath.
Instead of being in a room full of 30 short people, dinner out means I will probably be surrounded by 15 or 20 adults, most of whom can probably use multisyllabic words and know what they mean. When you spend your days, weeks, months with a roomful of noisy children, the slower energy of adults is a welcomed respite.
I also enjoy my husband's company away from the TV, laundry, and leaky faucets. Plus, someone else does the dinner dishes.
If I didn't have horses, we'd probably be there every other weekend. As it is, we try to squeeze in one weekend a month. While up there, we do all the stuff that I already enjoy: reading in the hammock, riding the quads, snowshoeing, hiking, sitting around the fire pit with a drink, and watching movies. Basically, we unplug from the real world as we feed our marriage and replenish our energy levels.
I've shared this many times already. After riding, I enjoy traveling more than anything else. Weekend trips are enjoyable, of course, but our favorite type of travel is international. We are blessed to have incomes that allow us to indulge in this hobby, and I am even luckier to have a partner who loves to travel as much as I do.
So far, I've visited at least ten countries as well as Hawaii (twice) and the Canary Islands (which belong to Spain and lie just off the coast of Morocco). I've been to Central America (twice) and South America. We're going to Italy this June which will make five trips to Europe. So far, we haven't made it to Asia, Africa (unless you count the Canary Islands), or Australia, but they are definitely on our list.
So what about you? What do you like to do besides riding?